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Nincompoops EVERYWHERE.

It happened again.. . I hit a stumbling block on being a #contentqueen. I’m not 100% sure what happened, I was on SUCH A ROLL with it, constantly filming and editing and posting, but the past month has been like ‘Pls no’. I have had zero enthusiasm for filming, editing or posting. I don’t know if there’s just been too much going on, but my motivation for it was low. I did do one thing though, which was a mass unfollowing on my Instagram . I realised the people in my ‘most shown on feed’ are not people whose content I actually engage with, and they’re not people who engage with my content, so I got rid of them. During my mass unfollowing I noticed 1. I was following people who I last spoke too over a decade ago, with some of them we’re not even in the same field anymore and have nothing in common content wise. 2. I was following people from a decade ago who had gotten married and had kids and their feed is full of pictures and videos of their parters and children (who I don’t / won’t ev...
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I'M OUT!

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  I have news: After 10,000 hours of broadcasting in London, I am relocating to Birmingham… to broadcast some more LOL.   This decision wasn’t a light one.   I realised about two years ago that I couldn’t stay in London. The cost of living is absolutely insane. And I mean insane. It was costing me £15 per day in Congestion Charges (which just went up to £18 even), £8 per day Blackwall Tunnel Charges and £25 per day parking charges - just to get to work.   That’s nearly £50 a time just to get to my job, and a similar cost to get to Octaves also, it was no longer sustainable. And no there wasn’t a simple ‘Just get the train’ solution, for reasons that are currently a criminal investigation but that I will write about when I’m allowed.   I’m an action babe, I see a problem, and I go about fixing it, so I started the process of relocating, to Dubai funnily enough. Took my son there last year to sort an apartment, to show him around, lined up jobs etc and was going t...
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#Babywhatisyoudoooooin???

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Don’t let Stefon’s baby momma drama distract you from the Serena Williams GLP-1 Ad.   I’ll be so real, I started writing about this weeks ago but LIFE GOT BUSY! I will of course update you on ‘life’ in a separate post but this one, I wanna get this out there because… well it’s still on my mind.   Sunday 8 th Feb, The Superbowl. I didn’t pay any attention to it because – life. But all over my timeline was naturally the performance by Bad Bunny, and rightly so, coupled with commentary surrounding the relationship of rapper Cardi B and NFL player Stefon Diggs. Again – rightly so cause #Babywhatisyoudoooooin??? Anyway in between alla that, I was having my daily scroll on the timeline and I saw an advert that was aired at the Superbowl of Serena Williams injecting up herself with di weight loss tings.   In the words of L.A Cartier “HAS EVERYBODY LOST IT?!”   Serena Williams, one of the greatest athletes of all time, is promoting weight loss injections.   In the adve...
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The Octaves closure, let’s talk about it.

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  I’m going to start by saying my blog hasn’t seen me in weeks – ironically - because I’ve been swamped arranging the reopening of my restaurant, Octaves, which has been closed since May 2025. The reopening requires a level of locking in and due diligence you’ll never be able to imagine (unless it’s something you’ve done yourself before). Staff contracts, staff rotas, stock lists, stock runs, compliance, cleaning, admin, social media, web design, menu design… and that’s before I’ve even cooked a damn thing. Last year I closed the restaurant because God told me to be still. I didn’t know why that was His message, but I knew I shouldn’t act on anything until September 2025. In the last week of September 2025, a lot of things happened that made it all make sense. The restaurant was open from January 2025 to May 2025 because I was convinced by friends and family not to close it. “What about the young people and their jobs?” “You’re providing a disservice to your regulars.” “Restaurants...
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Chapter 3

Chapter 3 is on pause. Pastor Mike Jnr JUST dropped and PASTOR MIKE JNR IS KICKING MY ASSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS https://youtu.be/zK4K-l0XC1I?si=AAiYQDQW2NZahQEk  https://youtu.be/zK4K-l0XC1I?si=AAiYQDQW2NZahQEk He kicked my ass in the first 👏🏾 ten 👏🏾 minutes 👏🏾  I think he read my blog looooool (I’m not expecting you to watch it lol) but eyeeee watched it and ye… brb 🤣🤣🤣
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An Insert.

Okay before I even get into the next chapter, a very particular point has been made to me about this. So I’ll do the disclaimer early on so that we’re all clear.   My story isn’t about Vengeance, it is about Testimony. Vengeance is about repaying harm, Testimony is about releasing truth.   When God says “Vengeance is mine” in Romans 12:19, he is talking about retaliation - the desire to punish, destroy or ‘get even’. Vengeance is rooted in control and in payback.   Telling the truth about what happened to you is not the same thing.   The Bible supports and encourages truth telling and testimony. It repeatedly affirms it furthermore.   Truth brings freedom “You wil know the truth, and the truth will set you free” - John 8:32 Darkness is exposed by light “Have nothing to do with the fruitless deeds of darkness, but rather expose them” - Ephesians 5:11 The list goes on. Silence is never commanded to protect wrongdoing, that’s not how this works. And as long as you...
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Accountability.

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In previous years I have not set New Years resolutions for myself. For a few reasons. One is that I’m a ‘If you’re going to do it, do it now’ type gal. Anything I want to change in terms of fitness, food, fun, whatever - I do it the day I realise it, and if I don’t do it then I compartmentalise it as ‘well you obviously didn’t want to do it that badly did ya’.   This year feels different though, i feel different. So I’ve set some New Years resolutions to hold myself accountable for.   The first one is in relation to content creation and social media. I’ve never been a fan of sharing my whole entire life on social media and I do think people go too far for likes and do too much to try and go viral. I’m shy sometimes watching content like ‘Say swear you did that on the internet’ looool.. But also the things I’m shy watching were slapping and getting the comments and views, so it was like ‘if THAT is what I have to do to get likes I AIN’T DOING IT BUDDY’.   But the truth i...
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